How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Procrastinates a lot.

What I need from you?

What are some alternatives to wearing a bra? Why do some women feel pressure to wear bras even though there may not be any benefits?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

If my lovely sister sleeps with my boyfriend, what should I do about her?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do you regret being married to your current wife?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Ask yourself:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

It has been said that people with ADHD can often hyperfocus. Can that be an advantage?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

That's it for today.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does not procrastinate.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What are some hard rock or heavy metal bands that are overrated?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why do most people care so much about what others think? Are they afraid of society norms?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hangs out with loser friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can parents identify and address early signs of racial bias in young children?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Making more friends is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Is it socially acceptable for individuals to wear clothing typically associated with the opposite gender? What are some reasons for or against this practice?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).